I believe quite a number of people had experience when what they wrote (be it letter, e-mail, sms, bbm etc) was misinterpret by the other party...
Through my experience, these happened due to the state of mind of the other party... if they are in angry mood / negative thinking, they will interpret your writing as negative too... E.g. even simple words like 'WHAT'... try to read it when you are angry and happy... the tone can be different...
We write sms/bbm sometimes in hurry, so we may not put the right punctuation at times, guess what happened to the other receiving end who is not in the right state of mind...
The best is, if you ever felt offended, try to call the person that send you the message and listen to his tone of asking the question... you will then know what he meant...
What I could not understand is somebody who always think negative about you and what you think an harmless message can turn to be 3rd world war...
Whatever it is, always have positive intention of whatever you read because through positive thinking only then we can reduce our stress.
just my 2 cents...
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