It is not easy and rosy as what most people think if you have 2 family...
I have been chosen to take that responsibility more than 3 years ago and to date I never regret it.
I take whatever comes as my responsibility and Allah blessed me with that because I believe HE know I can handle it.
To some (ladies especially), they always give me the one kind of look.. Yeah.. whatever, I know what I did and most importantly Allah knew better...
It takes a lot of patience to handle both and more importantly must be fair to both. It is not an easy tasks but I just did my best to be fair... there bound to be unhappiness/uneasiness but that is normal... as a family head, you need to be patience and always pray to Allah that you can be fair to both... Not many know the kind of sacrifices you have to make, but to me, I did it because it is Allah's will for reasons HE know best.
Alhamdulillah, I am blessed that both my wives are understanding and reasonable... I know it is not easy on them too... but they know that I love them and will do my best for them... There are times I have to make hard decision but at the end of the day, it is what is best for them...
I love you both Sal & Emma... my only wish have not come through but I hope one day, both of you could fulfill it before I move on to another life...
Sincerely your hubby...
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